Onasummerdayin2010,18-year-oldJaneYuquick-steppedthroughthecoolmorningwindinIowastate,centralU.S.,abackpackoverhershoulder.ShewasafreshmanoftheIowaStateUniversity.
"Well,Ifitintothenewenvironmentquickly.However,sometimeswhenan'Americanjoke'poppedupduringalectureandthewholeclassburstintolaughterexceptme,itwasalittlebitawkward."
"ButIwouldstilllaughwiththemeventhoughIdidnotquitegetit,"shejoked."However,itwasabitfrustratingthen--seeingmyselfaculturaloutsideronoccasionslikethiswhenstudentsinteractwithprofessors."
ToacquaintherselfwithU.S.popculture,JanewatchedregularlytheDailyShow,asatiricalnewsprogramthenhostedbycomedianJonStewart."Itwasoneofmyfavoritenewsprogram.Iloveitbecauseitdeliverssomethingveryseriousthroughhumor."
Fastforwardto2015,JaneisnowagraduateoftheColumbiaUniversity."IfyouspentalotoftimetolearnAmericanpopculture,youwillgraduallygetthesejokes.Butthesearestillmy'blindspots',"sheadmitted.
Jane'sendeavortonavigatethroughadifferentcultureandherfeelingofbeingan"outsider"issharedbymanyChinesestudentswhocametostudyatAmericanschoolsoverthepastfewyears.
Lateststatisticsshowedthatmorethan304,000studentsfromChinawerestudyinginU.S.collegesanduniversitiesinthe2014-15academicyear,accountingfor31.2percentofallinternationalstudents.
AgrowingmiddleclassinhomecountryandU.S.universities'pushforaglobaleducationcontributedtotheinfluxofinternationalstudents,particularlyfromChina,analystssaid.
However,whileAmericanschoolsgotogreatlengthstorecruitChinesestudents,theinfluxofinternationalstudentshasalsoleftthemunpreparedintermsofhelpingthemassimilatetolocalcommunities.
Arecentstudyfoundthatnearly40percentofinternationalstudentsreportedhavingnocloseAmericanfriends.AndstudentsfromChinaandelsewhereinEastAsiasaidtheireffortstofitinatschoolis,moreorless,astruggle.
"WhenChineseinternationalstudentscometomyoffice,oneoftheveryfirstquestionstheyhave--rarelyanacademicone--is'howdoImakeAmericanfriends?',"saidSebastianCherng,assistantprofessorofinternationaleducationwiththeNewYorkUniversity(NYU).
"Itisdifficult,"hesaid."Weareaverydiversesociety,butwearealsoaverysegregatedsociety."
Therearereasonsforconcern.Takeastrollonthecampusonanygivenday,onecaneasilysensethenuancedboundaries:moststudentsarehangingoutwithschoolmatesoftheirownethnicity.
ThoughmostAmericanstudentsbelieveChinesestudentsareapositiveadditiontotheclassroom,makingfriendswiththemisadifferentmatter.
TomostChinesestudents,foralltheireffortstomingle,therealwaysseemstobeaninvisibleline.
YaLin,analumnaoftheNewYork-basedFordhamUniversity,said:"MostChinesestudentswillactivelyparticipateinsocialnetworkingevents,suchashappyhouroralumnigathering,butitishardtomaintainanddeveloptherelationship."
Speakingalongsimilarlines,Linda,alsoaFordhamalumna,saiditiseasytomakeacquaintancewithlocalAmericanstudents,butveryhardtoforgeclosertieswiththem.
Thetendencytoseekforfriendswithsimilarbackgroundsisonereason,Cherngsaid.
"EveninplacelikeNYUwhichisincrediblydiverse,peoplewillsticktowhattheyknow.YourEnglishsoundsdifferentfrommineandifImakepopcultureinferences,youmaynotknow.WemaynotwatchthesameTVshows,wemaynotlikethesamefood.Sotomakefriendsandtocrossthoseborders,ittakesefforts."
Inhisview,theresponsibilitytocrossthoseboundariesliesinAmericanstudents."IthinkuniformlyChineseinternationalstudentsareverywillingtomakethateffort,IthinkalotofresponsibilityneedstobeplacedonAmericanstudents."
Meanwhile,ChergnsaidhebelieveduniversitiesshouldoffermoreprogramstobothAmericanandinternationalstudentsthatfacilitatemutualunderstandingandinteraction.
PeterKwong,professorofurbanaffairsandplanningatHunterCollege,alsoagreedthatuniversitiesoughttomaketheeffortstohelpforeignstudentsfitinU.S.universities.
"Butwhethertheyseethatasapriorityisadifferentstory.Thepressureisnotthere,"hesaid."Theydon'tseeresponsibilityintermsofbridgingculturalgap."
Still,changesarehappening.
Manyuniversitiesarespendingconsiderabletimeandeffortstoattractmoreinternationalstudents,aswellensuringtheyareacademicallysupported,particularlyintermsoflanguage,Chergnsaid.
JiaWei,anMBAstudentatNYU'sSternSchoolofBusiness,toldXinhua:"Sternhassomeverygoodprogramfortheorientation,itiscalledlaunch.Duringthetwo-weekactivities,thereisalotofinteractionbetweenusandotherstudentsthatwillhelpusadapttocampuslife."
"Meanwhile,wehavedifferentsocieties.IamonboardofAsianBusinessSociety,andeveryyearwehavea'culturaltrek'toAsia.AlotofAmericanswillsubscribeforthetrek.TheyareeagertolearnAsianculturethroughtheprogram."
AtNYUwhichboaststhehighestnumberofinternationalstudentsintheUnitedStates,ChergniscurrentlyworkingwithoneinternationalgraduatestudentwhoisdesigningandrunninganIntergroupDialoguecourseforNYUundergraduatesonthetopicofrace,immigration,andinternationalstudents.
"SincecomingtoNYU,I'veworkedwiththeCenterforMulticulturalEducationPrograms.PartoftheirmissionistorunworkshopsforbothNYUandnon-NYUgroupsthatmodelhowtohaveconversationsthatareimportantforbothU.S.domesticandinternationalstudents,"hesaid.
"Weneedtobebetter,andwecannotinvitesomanyinternationalstudentsandalsonotbetrained,nottohaveaconversationaboutwhatitlookslikewhensomanyclassmatearenotfromyourcontext,notfromyourcountry.Wecannotjustassumethatbecauseweare,thatalloftherelationshipscanhappen,"henoted.Enditem